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the unexpected

5/30/2016

 
I thought, only the suffering had died
that relief was on tap
peace flowing
finally

I went on like this for a week, 
happy almost
(smug you might say)
she was so sick, and in so much pain
my god, if you saw her
she was starving

idiot!

She was not starving
she was feasting

on every day
every hour
every minute

devouring seconds

the bread of life
(the cup of salvation)

I'd missed all that

until we came to the church
where people packed every bench
lined every wall 
with love in their hearts
and flowers in their hair

Because there were just so many of us,
they opened the choir loft 

And the people who knew you best
sang your praises
with stories and poetry, the places you went to meet God

And oh god (since we're on the subject)
the tears,
my tears
those unruly bitches 
plummeting from my eyes and nose
shameless

(I read on the internet so it must be true
that the molecular structure of tears
changes based on what they're for

tears of grief are not pretty
like onion-chopping tears;
Grief tears under a microscope resemble reckless stick people 
drunk and flailing in an ice storm)

It was only when your past stood up to speak
that I saw with my big dumb eyes 
what our future had lost

Your middle name was Denise
denise, from nice (I thought)
but really the name is derived 
from Dionysus, Greek
God of wine and merriment

(So your middle name was mischief.
Of course it was.)

I wept for your middle name,
and all the things I never knew
And all the new things we'll never know 

Grief is a motherfucker.
Not at all the holy golden thing we imagine
But a lumbering oaf who stumbles into the kitchen
and grabs a fistful of cocktail nuts
and chews with its mouth open 
while you're at the stove 
attempting to prepare
a balanced meal

I was expecting death.
I was not expecting this.

But then
The unexpected reminds me of you.
It feels like you. 

So I'll take it. 

    yours. truly.

    Amanda O'Brien is the author and sole proprietress of Blabbermouse.

    She's a wife, a mother, a reader, a runner, a writer, and, most recently, a fallen whole foods vegan. Yes those are parmesan crumbs on my cheek. 

    She can't show you how to profit by clipping coupons, take pretty photos of food, make interesting crafts, dress for less, reupholster furniture you found in a dumpster, or decorate on a dime.  She can also not demonstrate how to perform a proper squat, plank, or "burpee". 

    But she's funny and nice, and she likes you very, very much.
    

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